Nothing happens by itself. When someone dies, every social media account they had stays exactly as it was until a person asks the platform to change it. The profile keeps appearing in searches and friend suggestions, the birthday reminder still goes out, and old photos keep resurfacing as "memories" for the people who knew them. For some families that is a comfort for a while. For most it becomes a problem, usually at the worst moment.

This guide explains what each platform does, what the law says in the United States, Canada, Australia and Europe, and what a family can do about it. It is written for readers anywhere. If the person lived in the UK, our UK version covers Tell Us Once and UK law.

In short: accounts stay live until someone acts. Facebook, Instagram, TikTok and LinkedIn can be turned into memorials or removed. X, Snapchat and most others can only be removed. Government notification services do not reach the platforms. The family, or the person handling the estate, has to contact each platform with proof of death and, for removal, proof of who they are.

What happens if nobody does anything

A few platforms do act on inactivity alone, and families are often caught out by which ones.

What the law says, country by country

Less than families expect, and it differs more between countries than the platforms' own processes do. This is general information, not legal advice.

Two things are the same everywhere. An executor's court document is accepted by the platforms as proof of authority for a removal request. And the government services that pass on news of a death do not reach social media. In the United States the funeral home generally reports the death to Social Security. Australia's Death Notification Service tells banks, utilities and insurers. Neither tells Facebook.

Platform by platform, as of October 2026

What memorialising does

On Facebook and Instagram, a memorialised profile shows "Remembering" next to the name. Nobody can log in to it, it stops appearing in reminders and suggestions, and the posts and photos stay visible to the people who could see them before. It is the fastest way to make an account safe while the family decides, because anyone can request it with an obituary, and it does not prevent a later removal.

The platforms' own forms use the American spelling, memorialization, which is worth knowing when you search their help pages.

Delete or memorialise?

Removal is usually right when the profile continuing to exist is distressing, when the person was private, or when the account has already been misused. Memorialising usually makes more sense after a sudden or young death, when friends want somewhere to go, or when the family is divided, because a memorial can be removed later and a removed account cannot come back. Most families end up with a mix. Our decision guide goes through it properly, including what to save first.

What to do, in order

1
Save what matters

Photos, videos, messages and the tributes friends have posted, before any request is sent.

2
Memorialise Facebook and Instagram now

It takes an obituary link and ten minutes, and it stops logins and reminders while everything else is decided.

3
Gather the documents

The death certificate, and the certificate or court document that shows who you are to the person. Our documents guide explains what each is called in your country.

4
Send the removal requests, platform by platform

Each one is separate. If one is refused or goes quiet, our pages for Facebook and Instagram requests that are not working take each problem in turn.

How long it takes

None of the platforms publishes a timescale. Memorialising a Facebook or Instagram profile with clear proof is often done within days. Removal takes longer, from a week to several weeks, and a request that has been silent for two weeks usually needs sending again. LinkedIn and X take a few weeks. The smaller platforms depend on reaching a person in support.

Or let us do it for you

Departed Digital closes or memorialises every account for the family: the right request on each platform, the documents sent once, the resubmissions and the follow up, and a written record at the end. Packages start from £149, checkout shows your local currency automatically, and we work with families in the UK and internationally.


More than one platform? Start a case and tick the accounts you know about. We find the rest.

Written and checked by Steven Kong

Founder of Departed Digital, a London service that closes or memorialises online accounts after a death. Every guide is checked against the platform's own process before it is published, and again when the process changes. About Steven