Most families think first about Facebook. The real list is much longer, and the accounts that cause trouble months later are the ones nobody thought to look for: the email that resets every other password, the cloud storage that holds the photos, the payment app with money still in it, the subscriptions charging a card that no longer belongs to anyone.

This is the checklist we use, written for families anywhere in the world, with the country-specific names where they differ. Work down it once with a pen, tick what applies, and you have the whole job on one page. You do not need to find everything before you start, and you do not need a single password for any of it. If the person lived in the UK, the UK edition has the British names.

Print it. The same checklist is available as a one page PDF to keep with the death certificate and the other paperwork: download the checklist (PDF).

Before you close anything

Social media

Email and the accounts that unlock everything

Messaging

Money and shopping

Subscriptions that keep charging

Twelve months of bank and card statements is the fastest way to find these. Most stop by themselves once the bank knows about the death and the card fails, but some are billed to another family member's card or through PayPal. Our subscriptions guide covers which is which.

Phone, internet and TV

One form for many organisations

Some countries have a single notification that reaches many organisations. None of them reaches the online accounts on this list, but they shorten the rest of the paperwork.

Devices and the data on them

Our guide to a loved one's phone covers what to do with and without the passcode.

Work, public and creative accounts

A domain name is the one people forget. When it expires, the website disappears and the email addresses on it stop working, and someone else can register it.

The order to do it in

1
Stop the money

Tell the bank. Cancel or transfer anything charging another family member. Deal with PayPal, the payment apps and the phone plan.

2
Secure what is public

Memorialise or remove the social media profiles, so nobody can log in, impersonate the person or message relatives from the account.

3
Save what matters

Photos from Apple and Google, chats from WhatsApp, anything on the devices. Take your time here.

4
Close the rest, email last

Subscriptions, shopping, cloud storage, then the Apple or Google account, then the email.

The two documents you will need again and again

Almost every request on this list asks for the same two things: the death certificate, and something that shows you are entitled to act, such as a birth or marriage certificate that links you to the person, or the court document that appoints you to deal with the estate. Our documents guide explains what each is called in the United States, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and Ireland. Nobody on this list should ever ask you for a password.

Or let us work through the list for you

Departed Digital closes or memorialises the accounts on this checklist for the family. You tell us which ones you know about, you send the documents once, and you receive a written record at the end. Packages start from £149, checkout shows your local currency automatically, and we work with families in the UK and internationally.


Rather hand over the list? Start a case and tick the accounts you know about. We will do the rest.

Written and checked by Steven Kong

Founder of Departed Digital, a London service that closes or memorialises online accounts after a death. Every guide is checked against the platform's own process before it is published, and again when the process changes. About Steven